OMG, no! Even if you have second thoughts on if an incident is harassment, if you even have any inkling that you may have caused harassment, don’t, please don’t keep it to yourself. It is absolutely the wrong thing to do. You need to fess up and talk to your supervisor or HR Director. I’ve heard of one employee who thought that if he/she just waited to “clear things up” it will all go away. Well, it didn’t, and it only got worse. And, because the employee did not talk to anyone about the incident, thinking it would “all go away” is what made the incident get to a boiling point.
There are several state government websites that define and advise on what happens when you have an employee who is conducting harassment of any types, or even if you, yourself, believe that you have been harassed.
Let’s just hope that none of us have to deal with these issues. Be respectful out there folks!